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Friday, 5 December 2025
UNIMA Checkers VT Stars–Ready to Volley and Check-Bang in CUCSA Competitions
Monday, 24 November 2025
EXTREME SHOUTS AT HOME; WHAT DO THEY MEAN TO VISITORS AND CHILDREN?
There is a psychological trait; I understood that most people especially women, use children as a block to disrespect visitors like relatives or close friends of their partners. The block is simply shouting, and even smacking kids for a minor issue. Mostly, the shouting is extreme for a child's age, and makes the visitor wonder if that is how they normally treat their offspring or those they are raising.
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| Photo Credits: Meta AI |
I always quote my late Gramps: "When you are welcomed, children's behaviour is the first sign. Even the joy displayed to these children by parents is a sign that you are appreciated in a home." Of course I was very young when he advised someone of this, and I still recall it vividly.
Anyway, a home where a parent often treats children in an unfriendly way in the presence of visitors is not worth a stay. Someday, you might wonder why people never open up to the possibility of sharing conversations with you or engaging you on important matters. It is definitely your behaviour, and how you react in their presence.
I understand, sometimes children are hard to control, but that is not an excuse to speak, and treat them poorly around visitors. It is very unfortunate that many do not realise this. Hence, the visitors may simply observe the parent, and in the end regard them as a wild animal to kids. They cannot even let their kids to go at relative or friend's for a holiday or some kind of a weekend visit for fear of having them mentally damaged.
Are kindness and love that hard towards the young ones? How did we lose the moral grounds and disciplinary ways to help our children become better? Where is the honesty if we have problems with others?
Tolerating extreme shouts create a hostile environment–not just to the young ones, but everyone present. As we keep on evolving, we should not leave love and discipline behind. Let us be kind with one another, as most religious doctrines say, "Love always win" ๐ซถ
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Tuesday, 13 May 2025
PERSEVERANCE CEMENTS GOLD STATUS: UNIMA CHECKERS VT TOPS TESSAM TOURNEY
The University of Malawi Checkers Volleyball Teams (UNIMA Checkers VT) have proven that success comes through persistence and resilience, as both the men’s and women’s teams claimed gold at the recent Tertiary Education Students Sports Association of Malawi (TESSAM) tournament held in Lilongwe on Saturday, 10th May 2025.
The men’s
team, who were knocked out in the previous tournament after earning bronze in
the one before that, and the women’s team, who secured bronze in two
consecutive competitions, finally broke through to the top. This year’s sweep
cements UNIMA Volleyball as a rising powerhouse in TESSAM, marking a perfect
finish in both categories.
| UNIMA Checkers VT gold medalists ๐ฅ showing their medals (Photo Credits: UNIMA Checkers) |
Speaking after the tournament, men’s captain Benjamin Chamgwera expressed his joy over the hard-earned victory especially that it came in his final year at the institution.
“This gold medal symbolises that hard work pays off. This victory will inspire many aspiring players, especially considering that volleyball is one of the least popular professional sports in the country. I urge the government, the university and other stakeholders to support us in competing in more tournaments, especially those that could earn the nation a continental and global recognition.
Our dominance in both male and female categories shows that we are committed to inclusive success,” said Chamgwera.
| Top is Gold: Captain Benjamin Chamgwera๐ฅ (Photo Credits: UNIMA Checkers team) |
Women’s
team captain Jessie Kaunda also celebrated the win, saying she is happy with
the triumph, and hopes volleyball gets the recognition and support it deserves
for being one of the most successful sports at the university. She further
highlighted the benefits of shared training sessions with the men’s team.
| Smiles for the MileGold: Captain Jessie Kaunda๐ฅ (Photo Credits: UNIMA Checkers) |
“This
triumph is a result of strong teamwork across both teams since we
often train together. Competing alongside the men helps us to grow as athletes,
and it motivates them too when we outperform them. These gold medals are a
collective achievement,” Kaunda noted.
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| Joel Bangs! UNIMA Checkers VT Men's eliminating LUANAR-Bunda Campus team (Photo Credits: UNIMA Checkers team) |
“This
victory is a testimony that UNIMA is indeed the home of excellence. The players
made sacrifices, trained consistently despite tight academic schedules, and
showed a willingness to grow from past defeats. Some players even missed their final
social weekend. This mentality and work ethic made the difference,” said
Ngalande.
| We learned from our Mistakes - Ngalande (Photo Credits: Martin Ngalande Facebook) |
UNIMA Student Sports Director Precious Bonzo praised the UNIMA Checkers’ efforts and called for greater institutional support.
| Athletes need more support - Bonzo (Photo Credits: Chanco News Facebook) |
“The university,
and other stakeholders need to step in and support these athletes. Their
performance shows that with more opportunities in domestic competitions, they
can also help with the development of a strong national team,” said Bonzo.
UNIMA Checkers teams achieved gold after facing tough setbacks in recent tournaments. The men’s team bounced back from an early knockout in the last competition, following a bronze medal finish the year before. Meanwhile, the women’s team had consistently secured bronze in the two previous editions. This year, both teams reached new heights: the men’s team defeated Catholic University of Malawi (CUNIMA) 25–13, 25–18, while the women’s team delivered a dominant 25–15, 25–15 victory in the final.
Wednesday, 7 May 2025
THE SURVIVOR WITH A MORTARBOARD: A MALAWIAN GRADUATE’S STORY
Who is a Malawian Public University graduate?
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| UNIMA graduation, April 2025 (Credits: UNIMA Facebook Page) |
Have you
ever walked in the corridors of the University of Malawi (UNIMA) or any other
public university as a student?
As we walk
the corridors of Malawi's public universities, we are reminded of the
resilience and determination of students who strive for excellence despite
numerous challenges. From limited resources to financial constraints, these
students persevere to fulfil their dreams of a brighter future.
After
successfully being enrolled in various public universities for undergraduate
studies, either as generic or mature students, many face hardships. Once
enrolled, it is common for people back home to heap praises and focus on the
belief that the student will come back home with "the paper" in the
later years. Unlike in religion where faith is supreme, university students
need extra necessities to help them run their day-to-day activities. These
necessities are not limited to cooking flour, rice, groceries, and money for lunch
and supper, especially for those residing in the school’s hostels.
Many
students struggle to make ends meet at these institutions due to financial
limitations, and again, psychological constraints caused by academic pressure.
Some students complain of being redirected to programs they never wished to
study. Others lament about academicians who appear inconsiderate to their
academic needs, but that is a story for another day. There have even been
tragic trends where universities, particularly the University of Malawi, have
lost aspiring graduates to suicide. Almost every academic year since 2022,
students have forced themselves into the silent palace. It is the struggles
they face at the institution that prompt them to seek an escape route from the
difficulties.
The Malawi
government tries to support generic students by subsidising education costs and
providing loans. Despite this financial help, many generic students still struggle
to access basic needs which prompt some to withdraw or seek public assistance
through social media. Those who are bold enough open up, and help is given by
friends and philanthropists. The problem arises when students fail to speak up
about their struggles, whether financial or academic which lead to a silent
suffering. The end result is often either suicide or reckless engagement in
drugs and substances, especially marijuana and alcohol.
It even
gets harder for those who enrolled as mature students; they are not given any
financial support from the government—no loans and subsidies. Unless they are
employed by institutions willing to sponsor their education, they must shoulder
everything themselves. Mature students are expected to worry less, at least in
the eyes of generic students who assume that their peers are financially sound
due to their admission requirements: proof of work experience, financial
statements, or sponsorship letters. Some generic students even ask for
financial help from these mature students for luxuries, not knowing that even
mature students are unsure of how they will source their own funds. The
emotional burden placed on the experienced student, and the silent power that
financial expectations hold over them, separates them from their younger
counterparts. Some leave behind families that rely on them financially. When
they compare their earnings to tuition fees and other necessities, it is a
nightmare. Still, they soldier on, and face battles brought upon by
academicians in their quest to be certified for the academic award.
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| Some UNIMA BACCS class of 2024 graduates (Credits: Dr. Chavinda) |
To graduate
from these institutions, resilience is essential, and most importantly God's grace for
many. Despite atheism claims, many cry for help in the name of love. As one big
family per UNIMA, arms are stretched to pull each other out of messes:
financial, academic or psychological. A degree is a testimony that one attended
university, but the real lessons gained from these institutions are not
recorded on the transcripts. Those transcripts are strictly information of
courses attended in a classroom or an academic required research. The most
important lessons from university are stored in the graduate’s brain, the true
centre of the degree.
Some argue
that a degree is just a paper, but they never understand the struggles and
efforts invested to earn it. The lessons learned are the reason people boast
about having studied at a public university, not just for academic achievement but
for the life lessons gained from interacting with people of different
backgrounds in the country, and sometimes from across the globe. A degree is
not just a paper, it is a testimony of resilience, hope and determination.
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| A sigh of relief as student is ready to be conferred his Bachelors in 2025 (Credits: UNIMA Facebook page) |
Behind
every graduation photo is a story of survival. A story of skipped meals, silent
cries, sleepless nights, postponed dreams and quiet courage. The mortarboard is
not just worn on the head, it rests on the weight of everything a student had
to endure to earn it.
| Last Man standing (Credits: UNIMA Facebook page) |
They are not just graduates. They are survivors, the last kind standing with a mortarboard.
A question for your mind, who is a graduate from a public university in Malawi?



